Archive for January, 2010

28
Jan

Breaking the 200 Barrier

In Malcom Gladwell’s book, The Tipping Point, he makes reference to what is known as the social channel capacity.  The social channel capacity is the maximum number of people with whom we can have a genuine social relationship.[1] The idea is that we can only handle so many relationships, because together they can get quite complex, requiring much energy and brainpower.

Anthropologist Robin Dunbar has done a lot of research on this.  He looked at the maximum social capacities for monkeys, chimps, baboons, and people.  He discovered that humans socialize in the largest groups.  He believes the reason why we’re able is because our brains are large enough to handle it.  More specifically it is the neo cortex, which handles complex thought and reasoning.[2]

Dunbar actually created an equation in which he puts in the size of the neo cortex in relation to the size of the brain.  The idea is that the bigger the neo cortex the bigger the maximum social capacity.  He did this for humans and came up with the number 150.  150 seems to represent, according to his research, the maximum number of people one person can have a genuine social connection.  This is the kind of relationship that would allow you to enjoy a meal together if you met on accident at a restaurant.[3]

What’s more interesting is that our military has limited the size of fighting units to no larger than 200 men.  Even in a day and age when communication is at our fingertips, it’s still 200 men.  Dunbar writes, “…planners have discovered, by trial and error over the centuries, that it is hard to get more than this number of men sufficiently familiar with each other so that they can work together as a unit.”[4]

Also, the religious group, the Hutterites, who have lived together in colonies for hundreds of years, have a limit to this day on the size of their colonies.  That number is 150.  Once they grow past 150 they begin to make plans to start a new colony.[5]

What can we take away from this research that will help our churches grow?  I’m convinced that it is God’s will for the church to grow.  Healthy organisms grow naturally.

I think the main issue for churches stuck at or below 150 is that the pastor has maxed out his social capacity.  God has put limitations on the amount of social information we can manage.  Our neo cortex is only so big.  So, what’s the answer?

I think the answer is found in Carl George’s illustration of the sheepherder and the rancher.  The sheepherder knows all the sheep.  He knows their names, their problems, their concerns.  He visits them in the hospital.  He marries and buries them.  He’s the shepherd.  Scientific research seems to tell us that the average shepherd maxes out at about 150.

The answer is to become a rancher.  A rancher is a shepherd of shepherds.  George writes, “You must shift from doing the caring, which usually means you do it yourself, to seeing to it that people get cared for, which means you develop and manage a system of care giving that will include as many of your church’s lay leaders as possible.” Becoming a rancher is tough but it will lead to exponential growth for the Kingdom of God.[6]

God help raise up more shepherds to care for the great people in our church!


[1] Malcolm Gladwell, The Tipping Point : : How Little Things Can Make a Big Difference, 1st Back Bay pbk. ed. ed.(Boston: Little Brown, 2002), 178.

[2] Ibid., 179.

[3] Ibid., 180.

[4] Ibid., 181.

[5] Ibid.

[6]Carl F. George and Warren Bird, How to Break Growth Barriers : Capturing Overlooked Opportunities for Church Growth(Grand Rapids, Mich.: Baker Book House, 1993), 19.

25
Jan

Online Sermon Video Now Available!

Recently we began to post the video of our Sunday sermons online and to offer them as a podcast through iTunes.  If you like you can now actually view a Sunday message or send a link via email to a friend who may need some encouragement, or to someone who is looking for a home church.

This is another great way we can outreach.  There are those who are intimidated about coming to an unfamiliar place, especially a church, but they will visit a website and watch a service in the safety of their own home.

There are two volunteers in our church who have worked very hard to make this happen.  First, Kelly Smith really took the initiative and began to tape the services and then converted them to an Internet format.  Second, Tess Taitano did a lot of research to learn how we could post video to our website.  Many hours were involved and I want to say thanks.  You made this outreach happen!  Thanks for serving so tirelessly behind the scenes.

To view this last Sunday’s message of Michael Delapenha (his very first sermon) click here.  http://www.victoryscrossing.com/sermons/SustainingGrace.mov Great job Mike!

23
Jan

Dad’s Final Sunday

Tomorrow will be my father’s last Sunday as the senior pastor of The Community Church in Ashburn, VA.  The occasion will not be sad, but one marked by celebration.  My younger brother Charlie will be the new senior pastor, and I’m happy and hopeful for him.

My father moved our family up from South Carolina in the early 80’s to begin The Community Church.  I remember seeing him walk the neighborhoods with flyers in his hand, meeting folks, inviting them to church.

The church grew not only because my dad was a gifted communicator.  He has always had a genuine love for people.  He was able to look people from all walks of life in the eye and connect with them.  He was the real deal.  They could see that in his ministry and in his love for my mom, Jerrie.

Not only will he leave behind a great church that’s over 1,000 in membership, along with an outstanding Christian school, and a world-class facility.  He’ll leave behind a pastoral legacy of love and care for people.

What a hero!  I’ve got some big shoes to fill!

15
Jan

The Power of Focus in the Ministry of Billy Graham

Focus for the leader on his life’s mission and purpose is critical for long-term effectiveness.  Unfocused light that shines unhindered can illuminate a room, but if that same light is concentrated and highly focused it can become a laser that will cut through steel.

One outstanding leader who exemplified focus was Billy Graham.  In his autobiography Just As I Am, he shares how on three different occasions he made the difficult decision to stay true to his calling to be a preacher of the Gospel.

Very early in his ministry in 1949, when he was an evangelist with Youth For Christ, Billy was holding a series of meetings in Miami.  It was their custom on the last night of the campaign to devote that night to missions.  An offering was taken up and the entire amount was given for the service of missions.

The chairmen for those meetings that night jokingly complained about not being paid a dime while an offering was collected for missions.  While in Miami this same chairman took Billy o Fort Lauderdale, which was at this time a small village outside Miami and he said, “If I were you and could get any money I would invest it in land all through here.  It’s going to become a great city one day.”  Billy quickly responded, “I don’t want to get into any business.  I’ll just rely on the Lord to pay my way.”[1]

By 1951, Dr. Graham’s ministry had grown in popularity largely through the revival in Los Angeles leading to the founding of the Billy Graham Evangelistic Association.  To his surprise he was invited one day to Paramount Studios to have lunch with the company president.  At lunch the president asked him if he would be a lead actor in one of their films.  They were looking for a famous evangelist to play the part.  Billy Graham writes, “I looked him straight in the eye, with the others listening, and told him that God had called me to preach the Gospel and that I would never do anything else as long as I lived.”[2]

By 1964, Billy had become a friend of presidents.  He was especially close to Lyndon Johnson.  At the close of his first term he called Billy to come and spend time with him.  LBJ, in a straight forward way, asked Billy if he would run for president and promised that he would put his whole organization to work to support him.  Billy thought was a bit of a joke but saw some seriousness in his face.  To this Billy said again, showing remarkable focus, “I appreciate it, but God has called me to preach and I’ll never do anything else as long as I live.”[3]

There is a danger for church leaders to get our eye off our purpose and mission.  This is especially the case when we are in the early stages of building something and in the final stages – after our long term vision has been realized.  First, in the early stages, finances are tight.  There’s some discretionary time in our workweek.  There is pressure at home from the frustration of ministry.  It’s easy for the pastor, for instance, to look at getting involved in real estate, a side business, or becoming more preoccupied with a hobby like golf or fishing than with his life’s call.  Then in the later stages, we look at what all we’ve accomplished and we grow complacent and comfortable.  Instead of ending at the top, their ministry career fades down, and poops out.

Jesus exemplified this focus in Luke 4:43 – but he said to them, “I must preach the good news of the kingdom of God to the other towns as well; for I was sent for this purpose.”


[1] Billy Graham, Just as I Am : The Autobiography of Billy Graham, 1st ed. ed.([San Francisco, Calif.]

[Grand Rapids, Mich.]: HarperSanFrancisco ;

Zondervan, 1997), 130.

[2] Ibid., 175.

[3] Ibid., 414.

14
Jan

Don’t Get Under the Covers in Your PJ’s

The great healing evangelist Oral Roberts went to be with the Lord recently.  As a young boy Oral Roberts suffered from tuberculosis, but was miraculously healed during a healing crusade that went through his little town in Enid, OK.

After that crusade he still felt weak.  Oral had lost a lot of weight.  Because he was still very tired he would go into his room to take a nap during the day.  He would take off his clothes and put on his pajamas and sleep.  Instead of getting better, he got weaker and weaker.  His family was worried about his health again.

Oral’s mother, who was a full-blooded Cherokee Indian said, “Oral, I know you’re tired and need to rest.  But the next time you do, don’t get under the covers with your PJ’s.  If you need to take a nap, keep your clothes on and lay on top of the bed.” She wanted him to stay active.  Oral listened and he became strong again, completely healed.

It’s important that we stay spiritually active in prayer, worship and Bible reading even when times are tough.  If we lay there in the dry times it can quickly lead to spiritual apathy.  We lose interest in the things of God.  Actually, the dry and difficult seasons are really opportunities to pray our most powerful prayers!

1 Peter 5:6-7 – 6 Humble yourselves, therefore, under the mighty hand of God so that at the proper time he may exalt you, 7 casting all your anxieties on him, because he cares for you.

07
Jan

Children’s Christmas Lunch

This year our church was able to contribute $3,000 to the Children’s Christmas Lunch organized and sponsored by Rabonni Missions International and Pastor Gregory Bangura.

The hope was to feed thousands of children in West Africa, a region of the world that is predominantly Muslim.  Unfortunately, many children in West Africa only eat once a day.

Christmas this year fell on Friday, which is the Muslim holy day.  Everyone goes to the mosque at noon.  Instead of going to the mosque on Friday this Christmas, the children could choose instead to go to a local church to eat a meal and enjoy some fun activities.

Over 3,000 children were fed in 4 West African nations – Ivory Coast, Guinea, Liberia, and Sierra Leone.

It is our hope and prayer that God will take this seed of love planted and bring about a great harvest in the future for Christ in these nations.  Thank you to all who gave!